Damian's Dynasty

My 8 year-old son Damian has autism, but it doesn't define who or what he is.

He's brilliant, a perfectionist in many ways; he's black and white, literal, empathetic, plays it by the rules and he's simple. He's unique and has capabilities like no one I've ever met. His brain works in ways mine sadly never will. He doesn't fit into societies norms, and because of this, his special gifts often go unappreciated.

I believe he is a product of a lot of hard work, dedication, tutoring, therapy and love. My son loves hugs and cuddles, he loves praise and his feelings can often get hurt. He's gentle and he absolutely loves his older sister. There are things he doesn't like to do and that he struggles with daily. I know everyone's case is different, but I urge parents to get their kids help early. It made a difference for us. You have to be your child's advocate and fight for what you believe because no one else is going to. We fought for Damian, and I believe it made a difference.

Life with him is an adventure. He may not have followed the same path as most kids. There have been many times when we have had to stray from the beaten track and take the scenic route. The scenic route may take longer and have more obstacles, but it allows us to look at life from a different angle, and when we arrive at our destination, the sense of victory is like nothing else on earth.

There should not be a stigma around disability. He's perfect, he's mine and I wouldn't change him for the world.